Teenage years means an appropriation of space – emotional, intellectual and physically – from an adult. Whilst parents of boarders have accepted (but may not have overcome) the physical separation, it is often the emotional and intellectual separation that can be the hardest to manage. As a sister of a younger brother, with a very…
Blog – Parenting
Keeping your children cyber safe
Protecting our children comes naturally as a parent, what doesn’t come as naturally is protecting them online. Knowing about potential risks and how to deal with them is the best protection to managing online risks and consequences. Bullying is a timeless issue that continues to morph into new forms. Today, we talk about it; communities…
Toughening Up Children with Kindness
Some children are more sensitive than others, which can contribute to their feelings of self worth as they struggle to shrug off negative feelings, or painful barbs directed at them. Many people will say they need toughening up. But do they? International best-selling, award-winning author and speaker L.R Knost says, “It’s not our job to…
Book Review – Mastering Your Mean Girl – Melissa Ambrosini
I’m too tall, not smart enough, too quiet, too loud (yep, at the same time), a corporate banker moonlighting as a yoga teacher & wellness coach, and just, well different from my family and friends. For a while there, the voices inside my head dictated whom I hung out with, what activities I became involved…
The Ultimate Packing List for Boarding School
Are we breeding an entitled, spoiled generation?
Entitled and spoiled are two adjectives thrown around a lot about this generation of teenagers and young adults. This often comes from smothering your children with love and kindness, without setting boundaries. We often hear about this when parents think they can be best friends with their children and fail to set any boundaries or…
Is boarding school the solution when parents and children clash?
How to talk about risky behaviour
Struggling with bad behavior? Stop controlling
Whether your child is at boarding school or closer to home, it’s all too easy to end up trying to control kids to keep them safe. Dr Justin Coulson suggests there’s a better way…. We all want our children to grow up making intelligent and sensible decisions, but that’s easier said than done. Teens are…
To My Teenager – My how You’ve Changed
Are our kids ‘smart’ enough for smart phones at boarding school?
Introducing Justin Coulson as our 2015 Guest Speaker
Dr Justin Coulson is a positive psychology researcher, author, and speaker. He is the founder of The Real Men Project, an Honorary Fellow at the University of Wollongong, and a Senior Associate at the Positive Psychology Institute. Dr Coulson earned a first class honours degree in Psychological Science from the University of QLD, before completing…
Empty nest syndrome
Empty nest syndrome is usually associated with families whose children leave home to gain independence, attend university or get married. But for some parents of boarders, there is a sense of loss when the youngest child goes off to boarding school. This time of year is typical for feeling that sense of sadness and loss…
What to pack in care packages
One size doesn’t fit all
Don’t forget about the parents’ needs
We have spoken to lots of parents recently about the issues they consider when choosing a boarding school to meet the needs of their family. While the Boarding Expo team advises parents to start by thinking about all the aspects of the school experience and consider what is important to their child – whether his…